tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18174097891138271502024-03-12T18:05:24.915-07:00Funemployed & Loving itUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger146125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-55395466415116749882013-01-03T18:21:00.000-08:002013-01-03T18:21:22.111-08:00I've Moved!Hi everyone, thank you for following this blog and for all of your support. I've created a new site that incorporates all of these blog posts. I'll be updating from there moving forward.<br />
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The new site is http://www.fun-employed.com.<br />
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Please find me there!<br />
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Best, KerryUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-31259475164123496022012-11-22T20:27:00.001-08:002012-11-22T20:27:46.362-08:00In ter imI'm working on a new site that will house information about my eBook, a new workbook I'm finishing and this blog. Good potential business deals are distracting me, and for that, I apologize.<br />
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So, what's cooking?<br />
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Well, after being laid off for the second time in three years, I'm looking to create my own gigs. It's just simply too tough to think about having someone else be the master of my fate. I've also had quite a bit of freedom bestowed upon me due to my layoffs and doing the 9 to 5 thing just wouldn't feel natural anymore.<br />
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It's scary moving forward without the guarantee of a paycheck, but I feel more ready than ever. There have been countless entrepreneurs before me who jumped and landed safely.<br />
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There's no time like the present. There's no option but presents ahead.<br />
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Here goes nothing.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-72008329794974185312012-09-06T23:05:00.002-07:002012-09-06T23:05:51.278-07:00The Unbearable Weight of LossIn August, I lost my job, had food poisoning, moved into a bigger apartment and said goodbye to my beloved dog. As far as months go, it sucked.<br />
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For more than a few days, I felt like a loser. In the sense that there haven't been many wins in my column in recent years. The one bright spot was my senior rescue dog, Shaggy. It's been a long time since I was in love. He awakened my heart. Loving him and taking care of him made me feel like I had a purpose. I could move an entire apartment by myself, I could brace myself for unemployment and I could see the other side of food poisoning. All were positive changes, detoxing bad situations from my life. As long as I had my faithful companion, everything would be ok.<br />
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Shaggy's loss was dramatic, quick, traumatic and exhausting. I had to make a tough decision that wasn't tough rationally. It was tough because I was losing my pal, my constant companion and my connector to the dog community. He kept me present and my mood was uncharacteristically good. I could remember life without him. I just didn't want to live that life again.<br />
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A psychic told me that Shaggy is all around me. He left because I needed him too much. He wants me to have a human relationship, clear all of my heartbreak and then he'll come back to me in the form of another dog. He also said he wished he'd spent more time outside (btw, he spent 2.5-3 hours a day outside, more than any of his friends. He's still relentless, even from the other side.)<br />
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Even knowing he's ok, it's been a struggle to stay positive. For every moment that I feel ok, there are two where I feel like Mike Tyson is throwing knockout punches at my chest. I know that it has to get better.<br />
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I've learned that anything can change in an instant. There's no point in hiding behind fears. YOLO. So, I'm vowing to try a few things outside of my comfort zone. I'm going to sell a children's book. I'm going to start a microbusiness on the web related to pets. I'm going to follow what I want to do rather than what I can do. Hopefully, by following my passions and my heart, love will come my way. I'll find my husband, have our child, have a career that I want without money worries and my Shaggy, back to me in a new, young body to live with me for his entire life, instead of his last months.<br />
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If I can make this happen...no, when I make this happen, I will have the life I've always wanted to live.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-43305865097441061342012-07-01T21:15:00.000-07:002012-07-01T21:15:01.565-07:00Looking Back at Silicon Beach Fest<br />
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The sand has settled from Digital LA's inaugural Silicon Beach Fest, a celebration of the LA start-up culture challenging Silicon Valley. With three days of panels (and after parties) held simultaneously in four locations across Santa Monica and Venice, guest got to mix, mingle and learn about what's happening and upcoming on the Los Angeles tech scene.</div>
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PromoJam, a leading social media platform, held four panels at their offices focused on social media with respect to broadcast, music, hispanic market and voting. Executives from NBC Universal, UStream, Interscope Records, OOYALA, M-GO, Hitflix, Atom Factory, The Audience, Topspin, Lopez Negrete Communications, RAPP, Shrine America Latino, Rock the Vote, Redlaser and Techcrunch took time out of their busy schedules to share their insights on social media. </div>
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The key takeaway from PromoJam's panels is that people are using more and more devices to engage with media and are adding their voices to dialogue, whether it be Pretty Little Liars fans, the upcoming election and concerts. It's imperative for brands to conduct conversations, not dictate what they want fans to know.</div>
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The first ever Silicon Beach Fest showed the LA community the strength of the LA tech scene. With locals joined by those from New York and as far as London, it's becoming clear that SoCal is catching up to it's NorCal neighbors in terms of innovation, technology and start-up culture. Better start planning for next June's extravaganza!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-27814329589549768642012-05-28T20:45:00.000-07:002012-07-08T15:19:42.912-07:00Richard SlimmonsOn Saturday, I completed my new year's resolution. I worked out with Richard Simmons.<br />
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I wanted to go to <a href="http://www.richardsimmons.com/j15/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=43&Itemid=34" target="_blank">Slimmons Studio</a> solely for the kitsch (not Taylor) factor. As a kid, I remember Letterman mock the '80's icon and being really irritated by his over the top crying in infomercials. I can tolerate anyone for an hour, especially for a good story. Heading to Slimmons, my expectations were simple: sweating, oldies music, flamboyant Richard and a unique LA experience.<br />
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At age 63, Richard doesn't disappoint. In fact, he's more effusive in person and an unexpected inspiration. His joy and enthusiasm is infectious and even the most jaded ex-New Yorker can't help but smile.<br />
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Before class, he introduces himself to each student, asks their names and kisses them on the cheek. He knows that he's is best advocate and the friendly touch goes a long way to win over the naysayers or those just their to make fun of Richard. He makes fun of himself before you get a chance. He's not in on the joke, he is the joke and graciously lets you join him.<br />
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The class is a sweat-inducing mix of aerobics, weights and situps to 60's music with a touch of Lionel Richie. Mid-class, he grabs class members, dances with them in the center of a circle and even rips the shirts off good looking young men. At one point, a bachelorette pulled off her hot pant shorts (she had on a leotard and tights) and Richard matched her. I can tell you he wears tights and nothing else underneath those little satin shorts. Aside from that little horror, you smile while sweating and cheering on your classmates.<br />
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After class, he stays to take pictures with everyone, including group and individual shots. All told, you spend $12 for a 3-hour Richard experience, which is a pittance in a town of $22 classes.<br />
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While it would be hard for me to workout with Richard weekly, I foresee another visit to Slimmons Studio in my future. It's fun, a good workout and a nice break from fancy hybrid pilates-yoga-ballet studios.<br />
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Verdict: Angelenos and visitors will be pleasantly surprised by Slimmons.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-39699972553439261632012-05-19T13:00:00.000-07:002012-05-19T13:02:59.811-07:00Another Year, Lots of LearningMy birthday was a few days ago. I usually, annually fall into despair because my life isn't the way that I want it to be, but this year was different. I still want things to change, but I'm looking at this upcoming year where they will.<br />
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About a week before my birthday, I went to the doctor because I'm always exhausted. He called me to tell me that my blood test showed low sodium. When I googled, I saw that it is a symptom of some serious illnesses, including lung cancer. As an ex-smoker, this made me nervous. I kept calm, knowing it's a slim chance but I started thinking about too many things that I haven't done. Some of the easier items are to go to the Magic Castle, visit Catalina and have brunch at the Beverly Hills Polo Lounge. They will happen this year.<br />
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I also realized that fear has held me back from a lot of endeavors. Failure doesn't mean I'm a failure, just like wearing a bad outfit means I have bad taste. I'm also not psychic so if I assume something won't work out, I'm jumping the gun because of...fear. No more.<br />
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I'm thankful for many gifts: my dog, Shaggy, who has opened my heart; the writing opportunities that are slowly coming my way; for the job opportunities that will allow me to pay off my debt while living comfortably; and for my friends and family who love me although they may not always agree or understand my path.<br />
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As my birthday fortune cookie said, "Happiness is around the next corner, wealth down the street." Woo hoo!<br />
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(And the blood test was an anomaly, so I'm in the clear.)<br />
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Today’s interview is with Drew DeMasters, a Marketing
Consultant and Non-Fiction Author of “Landlord Marketing Secrets.” I’ve had the
privilege of working with Drew and can tell you honestly that he is an
extraordinary marketer and genuinely great guy. That doesn’t mean he gets
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Hi Drew! Welcome to
the blog. You’ve been working as a marketing guru as the main focus of your
career. What do you like best about it? Least?<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">Thanks, Kerry! Great to catch
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">The thing I love about marketing is that every business out there needs
help with it and the successes I’ve experienced with some companies really,
truly do translate for others as well!
And I think that’s because good marketing is about understanding
consumer behavior and making real connections with people. No matter whether it’s a Super Bowl
commercial, a new store grand opening celebration or a YouTube video that goes
viral to millions of views . . .
the reason why any type of advertising or promotion ‘works’ boils down
to whether it really connects to people.
So, helping businesses understand and connect with their customers better
really excites me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">As for what I like least? Well,
when I see good businesses with well-meaning, sincere people get caught up in
internal politics and turf-battles, it leaves me sad and wondering ‘why can’t
we all just get along?’ You know
that the business owners and founders never wanted it to be that way but the
egos and insecurity of people a bit further down the chain can actually hold a
business back from achieving great things and reaching its goals. I’ve seen it so many times, and that’s definitely
the worst in my view.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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together, I remember you writing your book during lunch breaks. What inspired you
to take on such a lofty goal while working full-time and what kept you going?<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">That’s funny you remember that!
Yes, I was a regular at that McDonald’s in Venice for a couple years! I had thought casually of writing a
book for a few years before I actually started it, and I think what inspired me
finally to the point of actually putting pen to paper (as they say) was really
two things. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">One, I had experienced a number of successes doing marketing for
clients on the agency side and really getting excited from seeing them enjoy
the high of those ‘ah-ha moments’.
Those successes proved in my mind that I what I was doing was not a
fluke, but something really powerful that could help a lot of other businesses
too.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">And two, that individual landlords and property managers maybe more
than any other type of business owner really need help with how they market
themselves, their properties and how they provide service to their
residents. As a rental property
owner myself, I saw this huge need and opportunity to help a lot of investment
property owners succeed more than ever in their rentals.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">The book is 240 pages, so it did take me many months of writing during
lunch breaks and on weekends. My
wife was amazingly patient with me and actually did the cover art that brings
the book to life in its final published form. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">Oh definitely promoting the book.
It’s a completely different kind of marketing than I’ve ever done before
so I’ve really learned a lot through this process. But since I love the business of marketing, it’s not been
hard, laborious work so much as just a steady, evolving challenge. A challenge I’ve helped many of my own clients
overcome . . . how to find and connect with new customers! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">The three most successful methods of book sales I’ve seen so far are –<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">And wow, radio was a wildly new frontier for me. For my first interview, I was as
nervous as I’ve ever been in my life.
Sweaty palms, dry mouth, couldn’t sleep the night before, etc. Way over-stressing it. But the best thing I’ve learned with
radio interviews is that it’s just a conversation between two people, not to a
cast of thousands. So, now I just
focus on sharing an important message that can help people. And low and behold, listeners do connect
with you.</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Recently, your
company eliminated your job (stupid heads). Do you find yourself living
funemployed (vs. unemployed) and what are some of the activities that you’re
engaging in?<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">Oh, funemployed for sure. I
loved the company but had ended up in a role that wasn’t a fit for me at all so
I couldn’t wait to leave. And I
consider myself very lucky that in 14 years of experience, I’ve only had one
bad boss. So yes, I’ve really
enjoyed the time so far. Spending
a lot more time with my kids. School
activities. Finally took the
Warner Brothers Studio Tour with my wife that I’d wanted to go on for 10
years. Took the kids to
Disneyland. Occasional walks,
brunch and biking on the beach. Doing
more writing, speaking engagements and being able to help other businesses find
and keep new customers. That’s my
passion.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">For your readers Kerry, I would say this … don’t let yourself be
defined by your job. Be defined by
your personality, your skills, experiences and who you are as a person, but not
by your 9-to-5 job. Time is the
most precious resource anyone of us has, so we really have to use it doing
something meaningful that you feel makes a difference. Famously, that was Steve Jobs’ philosophy
and one I choose to live by as well. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Clearly marketing is your passion since
your book is centered around it as well. Will you continue with corporate
marketing, focusing more on landlords or both? Are you working on another book?<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: 10pt;">I’m going to continue helping landlords in various ways and am creating
some new products to help them market themselves. Other industries that I’m particularly interested in are law
firms, independent insurance agents and mid-sized retail businesses. So, I may eventually write some
marketing guides for each of them and setup a couple of new websites targeted
to those niches.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Thanks, Drew for
sharing your story with us. Anyone needing effective and affordable marketing
consulting, please contact Drew at </b><a href="mailto:ddemasters@landlordmarketingsecrets.com"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">ddemasters@landlordmarketingsecrets.com</b></a><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">. If you’d like to buy Drew’s book or learn more about his landlord
marketing tips, visit </b><a href="http://www.landlordmarketingsecrets.com/"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">www.landlordmarketingsecrets.com</b></a><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></div>
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I had to pause and really think about my answer. It's relatively easy to talk about what success <i>looks</i> like. Having a nice house, a great car, a family that loves you and enough money to live comfortably would likely be typical answers. But that's about what you <i>have</i>, not about how you <i>feel</i>.<br />
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As Americans, we measure success by what we have. If you work hard, you'll be able to buy an Audi. But once you have it, after awhile you start thinking it'd be nice to have a Mercedes. If I work harder, then I can upgrade...and so on. If you're working so hard, do you have a god quality of life? If you took away all the material items, what is a measure of success?<br />
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Is success sitting with your family, having a wonderful meal and feeling that just shy of being too full feeling? Is it feeling the sun on your face as you watch your child playing and having fun? Is it being able to sleep late on Sunday morning? Is it snuggling with your dog while he looks at you with so much love in his eyes? What makes you feel content, happy, complete?<br />
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Maybe for you it includes a car, a house with a pool or a designer handbag. But I'm willing to bet that it involves something a lot more priceless. Because it's less tangible, it's easier to forget and lose sight of. You get caught up in a race, looking for that item that can validate all of your effort. See, I have a new car. It was worth it. But a hunk of metal can't love you back or fill you exhausted energy tank or make you have a great relationship with your spouse. Why can't success be the same as happiness?<br />
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What does success feel like to you?Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-43189155729286653242012-04-10T08:25:00.002-07:002012-04-10T08:27:04.297-07:00Interview #2: The Eye Doctor Changing The World<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #191919; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Today’s interview is with Dr. Eric Dessner, an Adult and Pediatric Ophthalmologist in New York City. He is also the Managing Director and Co-Founder of <a href="http://majiumbrellas.com/index.php/" target="_blank">Maji Umbrellas</a>, an organization that supports efforts to provide clean water to people that are affected by the ongoing drought in the Horn of Africa. He embodies the spirit of emPLAYment because he’s successfully pursuing his passions.</span><br />
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</span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1.<span style="font: normal normal normal 7pt/normal 'Times New Roman';"> <b> </b></span><b>Hi Eric! Clearly, you’re a busy guy so thanks for taking the time to share your story. Becoming an Ophthalmologist and building a practice takes a lot of time, dedication and hard work. What are the best and worst parts of your job? Do you have a super creepy story to share?</b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The best part is watching the reaction you get from a satisfied customer, patient that is! It feels good when a patient that you’ve done cataract surgery on in one eye is so eager to do the second eye that they say, “Can we do the left eye next week?” It lets you know that you’ve done a good thing for them. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The worst part, hmmm….well it’s a stressful job at times. Microsurgery can be that way. Also, sometimes it can make you feel like a bit of a pinball--one patient to the next over and over, which can be a bit numbing. That’s why I always have music on in the background and like to work in different locations throughout the week. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Helping people seems to the common thread between your jobs. Does <a href="http://majiumbrellas.com/index.php/" target="_blank">Maji</a> help you fulfill some aspects that you were missing from your Ophthalmology practice?</b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yes. It’s a creative outlet in many ways. My partner and I really started this from scratch, from the concept to its implementation. Also, the project gives me a chance to do some writing which I enjoy. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Maji’s focus is to sell umbrellas to raise funds for those suffering from drought in the Horn of Africa. What are your long-term goals, e.g. expansion to other regions or different types of products?</b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Well, right now we’re focused on the Horn of Africa. However, in the future we would love to have a role in providing clean water to other parts of the world as well. For now, we're focused on umbrellas because the umbrella ties together the themes of “protection” and “water.” A <a href="http://majiumbrellas.com/index.php/" target="_blank">Maji</a> mini umbrella for kids has been discussed because we think it would set a good example for children. There have been some preliminary discussions of other water themed accessories in the future. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>We take drinking water for granted. Can you share some of the effects of not having enough water or water that’s not clean?</b><o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Well, lack of access to clean water claims more lives around the world each year than any war claims through guns. A survey in 2008 conducted by UNICEF stated that 884 million people lack access to clean water. That’s pretty staggering. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>That's horrifying. Let's sell some umbrellas. What the best part of the umbrella? My guess is they won’t invert on a super windy day :)</b></span><br />
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</b></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The best part of the umbrella is that it has a built in donation to Oxfam America. Each purchase provides 20 days of clean water to the drought stricken Horn of Africa. It also looks great and is really sturdy. It’s a much better umbrella than many that are selling for 3x the price. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><b>Thank you again for sharing your story. If you need a top-notch Ophthamologist, please see Dr. Dessner. And, you know you never have an umbrella when you need one, so please support <a href="http://majiumbrellas.com/index.php/" target="_blank">Maji</a> by buying an umbrella or two and help do some good by spreading the word.</b> </span><a href="http://www.blogger.com/post-edit.g?blogID=1817409789113827150&postID=4318915572928665324" name="_GoBack"></a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-26150120753628970652012-04-02T17:07:00.000-07:002012-04-02T17:07:24.899-07:00Four Paws For LoveOne of the most asked about chapters of my eBook is the dating chapter and if all of those stories actually happened. Yes, they're all true.<br />
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After a year of shunning online dating, I got back on the train...and soon realized why I got off. After trading about 3 emails with a man who was very interested, he referenced his partner...and his baby. I double checked his profile and it indicated he was straight. Business partners typically don't adopt babies and "Three Men and a Baby" seems to far fetched for reality. I also didn't think he was a Jason Bateman-Turkey-Baster-Guy-in-an-Aniston flick, but before I let my imagination run too far away from me, I wrote, "So I take it that you're not single if you have a baby with a female partner?"<br />
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"Oh no, I challenge the concept of monogamy."<br />
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Hmmm, well, I challenge the concept of polygomy. Block!<br />
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But fear not. Before I sound like a much too bitter single lady, I have a hot little love. Burning at 100.7 degrees, my 4-pawed, wheaten terrier rescue has made me fall in love with him, more than I ever knew possible. He lets me sing and babble on and loves every second of it. With my heart open, good things are ahead.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-14342097693330159232012-03-22T11:08:00.000-07:002012-03-22T11:08:11.630-07:00Interview 1: The Map Maker<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;">I'm sure it gets boring just reading about me. This is the first interview in a series that explores people's journeys in FUNemployment and what I like to call EmPLAYment, where people follow their passions to success. </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;">Our first interviewee is Karla, who was laid off in 2011, has embraced FUNemployment and is on her way to EmPLAYment!</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;"><b>Hi Karla! Welcome to FUNemployed, the blog. Can you tell me a little bit about how you became FUNemployed?</b></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;">Sure, I was working in a large engineering firm for four years until a major business change triggered my layoff. I was v</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;">ery sad at the time but I've learned to make the best of a bad situation. </span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;"><b>Tell us how!</b></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;">I gave up my apartment, put my stuff in storage and started going on adventures. I have been doing WWOOF during this time, which is worldwide opportunities on organic farms and is a work exchange program. I work 25-35 hours per week on a farm in exchange for food and board. As a lifelong city girl, I never thought I'd know how to milk goats and make cheese. Plus, I get to travel, use my hands and I've met tons of interesting people!</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;"><b>Did your friends and family want to have your head examined?</b></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;">They definitely thought that I had a break from sanity. Luckily my friends and family are supportive and know that I have a good head on my shoulders. I just explained that it was like a forced summer break, except in winter.</span><br />
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</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;"><b>Wow, that's great! Sounds like you really stepped out of your comfort zone. Do you think you'll ever go back to your old industry?</b></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;">I always look to make connections in the engineering/map making world. I've attended seminars and conventions in Washington and Colorado and managed to find some volunteer work in Minnesota and New Mexico as well. I've been thinking of using my map making skills to help make guides so that people have an easier time of finding these organic farms.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;"><b>You just may have stumbled upon a new aspect of your career. </b></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;">You know, you have a good point. I've always loved being healthy and this could be a way to do some good while also using my skills and making a living.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;">In hindsight, no. It was terrible at the time, but I always felt like my old job wasn't my forever job. I've gained more new experiences in the past few months than I ever did at work. I love what I do but I don't know that being at a big firm is really what I want for the long haul. My new experiences have made me a more well-rounded person. I do wish I could whisper in the ear of recently laid off me and tell her that it will all be ok.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;"><b>Thanks, Karla. I really appreciate you sharing your story. Please do keep us posted about your journey...and if anyone needs a map or organic fruits and vegetables, let her know!</b></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #222222; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 12px; line-height: 19px;"><b>If you're interested in being an interview subject, please send an email to kerrylquinn51674 at gmail (dot) com.</b></span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-41031292968632015092012-03-18T14:53:00.000-07:002012-03-18T14:53:38.585-07:00Back to black, basics, bloggingThe most enjoyable work experience of recent years has been writing my ebook and blogging. Unfortunately, I let my new job get in the way of it and my writing career halted. I came into the job upbeat, exuberant and ready for a challenge. Three months in, I'm downbeat, tired and missing my writing. So I'm back.<br />
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Not to bury the lead, but I also fulfilled an uncompleted item on my FUNemployment list...I got a dog! He's not a puppy, but a 10-year old rescue wheaten terrier named Shaggy. For many reasons, I questioned whether I should get him but they've all faded. Since I gave up drinking, I don't go out all night. I have a job and am more financially stable. I'm ready for the responsibility and have the love to give. Plus, he's healthy and such a lover. Only a month together and he loves to cuddle with me, give me kisses and greet me at the door.<br />
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Now that we're settled and I'm recommitting to my writing, I'm working on an interview series about the funemployed and those who are pursuing their passions. This is not an empty promise, so thank you for your support and stay tuned!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-75660323284909429312012-01-30T10:54:00.000-08:002012-01-30T10:54:34.748-08:00Lightbulbs!I got a great review from Easily Mused of which I'm really proud. My eBook, "FUNemployed: Finding the Upside in the Downturn," received 5 out of 5 lightbulbs! <div><br />
</div><div>Here's a highlight: </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #171717; font-family: puritan; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"><a href="http://lovingfunemployment.blogspot.com/" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-color: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; color: #fc9a08; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" target="_blank">Kerry Quinn</a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #171717; font-family: puritan; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">‘s optimism is contagious, and I really enjoyed her book. It was fun, witty, and easy to read. While I’m lucky to never have been unemployed, I came away with lessons that I can apply to other difficult situations as they arise, and I’d recommend this in a heartbeat to anyone just needing a pick-me-up.</span></div><div><br />
</div><div><a href="http://easilymused.com/2012/01/book-review-funemployed-finding-the-upside-in-the-downturn/">Read the rest of the review</a>.</div><div><br />
</div><div>I've also been working on my new Web site which will feature more information about me, the eBook and upcoming projects. I've also done a photoshoot which I can't wait to share. I've uploaded a few samples as a preview. </div><div><br />
</div><div>I've also been working on an interview series with people who've been able to discover new passions or careers in FUNemployment, share their tips and just great stories. Stay tuned for more to come!</div><div><br />
</div><div>Lastly, I'm appearing on <a href="http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mikepat">Mike Patterson's radio show</a> on Thursday evening at 7pm EST/4pm PST. Be sure to listen!</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-48519836622356030332011-12-30T12:10:00.000-08:002012-01-15T10:49:48.806-08:00Dear Tim Tebow<div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Dear Tim Tebow, I'm not from Denver, nor am I a Broncos fanatic (but kudos for all those wins!). I've directed my letter to you because you have a direct line to Jesus. For 2012, I have some requests to share with The Big J:</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">--Kardashians Take Mars--can we send the sisters to outerspace? I don't believe TV signals can be transmitted from there, but they don't need to know that. They can lust for intergalactic fame and we won't hear a damn (oops! darn) thing about it.</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">--Lindsay "Not Marilyn" Lohan--this is a sad situation. Once a shining little starlet, her addictions have landed her in Playboy. She should pull a Demi Moore and hit up Iowa for awhile and then come back wearing a bikini in a 70's reboot movie, only to marry a 70's set TV star...oh wait, nevermind.</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">--L.A. douchebag men--Ahnold and Kobe can't keep it in their pants so let's just stop giving them attention, and worse yet, giving men ideas. If you're a man, you're a hunter and should be wooing ladies. Here's a tip: you have a tip...on your penis...and balls, which should give you the courage to ask a lady out. Don't say, "Hey, let me know when you're in my neighborhood," or "Here's my number, call me." If you want to be courted, date another man. If you want to get in a lady's pants, put in some effort. Work even. Remember, easily accessible vaginas belong to whores.</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">--Glee--this saccharine nightmare gives me diarhee. In fact, it caused Ryan Murphy to overcorrect so much he had to access his inner Satan with American Horror Story. I know you're not into Satan, so just cancel Glee and balance will be restored.</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">--Flavor-infused Vodka--I don't hit the bottle anymore, but I'm still offended by things like "whipped cream flavored Smirnoff." Really? 'Cause whipped cream offers so much...flavor? Have you hit rock bottom, Smirnoff? Do you drink too much of your own product? Is your product development team in the parking lot doing whippets? </div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
</div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">--Groupon, et al--We've all been duped and it's time to stop Satan in his deal-wielding tracks. How many people have lost out on restaurant deals, realized that steeply discounted skydiving is not a good idea and that dentists offering reduced rate cleanings are likely located in a strip mall next to Vivid Entertainment and known as the dentist of the porn stars (yes, Jesus, this actually happened to me, and thank you, because all STD tests were negative) </div><div id="yiv2011756863yui_3_2_0_13_132445056961140" style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"><br />
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Sincerely, all the best, with love,<br />
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Kerry Quinn </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-32156639029846296442011-12-04T15:22:00.000-08:002011-12-04T15:22:36.380-08:00Leaping LassAt a shopping event at Fred Segal in Santa Monica, I snagged some swag, saw Bo Brady of Days of Our Lives (he was feeding his daughter) and was more than pleasantly surprised by a new line that they're carrying called <a href="http://www.alottosay.com/shop/index.php?c=7">A Lot To Say</a>.<br />
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Made entirely from recycled plastic bottles, the line offers funny, pithy and inspirational sayings on t-shirts, iPad cases and more. I bought a pair of "Dream" panties. It says something along the lines of, "There are only 3 little letters between can and cannot." Part of the proceeds go to charity and I get the benefit of dreaming from my ass up. Not the most practical of purchases, but I'm not really being practical this week.<br />
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I accepted a job offer from a European agency that has a burgeoning office in LA. I'll be one of two people who'll be getting my entrepreneurial groove on. In order to do this, I had to quit my new, corporate (miserable) job. I'm giving up a bonus, health benefits for the next few months and potentially stability. A few years ago, I wouldn't have done this, but back then, I was too scared to dream. But now there's one more job open for someone who would love/appreciate/thrive in it. I'm not that person.<br />
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FUNemployment woke up my inner hustler and made me realize that life is too short, companies are not families and you've got to take care of yourself. So, I'm dreaming big, taking a leap and doing what feels right, instead of what looks good on paper.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-69761466614629171062011-11-27T20:17:00.000-08:002011-11-27T20:17:37.346-08:00Job-lashI was recently stopped in rush hour traffic on the 101 freeway when I was rear ended by a car going 55mph. Just a minute before I was singing my heart out to "Midnight City" by M83 when I needed to hit the brakes. I clenched and said to myself, "Uh oh. 3...2...f$ck." I knew it was coming, but there was little I could do.<br />
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Getting laid off and searching for a job can feel like getting rear ended. There's little you can do except to brace for the worst, hope for the best.<br />
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Lucky for me, I got a case of whiplash (which is a lot more painful than you think.) I had to sit out the premiere of Leo's new movie "J. Edgar" and have been in the no fun zone until very recently. I realized that despite my pain, I had to get out there, have some fun and generate some positive energy. Negativity breeds like rabbits and can smack you hard, knock you sideways.<br />
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No matter how you're feeling, if you're upset by your job search, still frustrated about your layoff, the best thing you can do for yourself is to counter act the negativity and start moving into the positive light. Anything can knock you down at any time. You've got to pick yourself up and live to drive another day.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-24154926156179950292011-11-22T20:03:00.000-08:002011-11-22T20:03:17.047-08:00Thanks. A Lot<div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Being unemployed during the holidays can make you feel like a native american amongst pilgrims (if you don't know your history, an outsider). Everyone is giving thanks for the blessings in their lives. So what do you have to be thankful for? That pink slip? The 23 emailed job rejections that you've received? The fruitless hours you've spent applying to jobs online only to hear nothing?</div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Yes, you should be thankful for all of these things and more. Your pink slip gives you the opportunity to use your day in new ways...hobbies, self-improvement, starting your own business. Your rejections give you feedback that can allow you to improve your resume, your cover letter or your application style. The hours you've spent applying are planting seeds. It may not result in a job this minute, but I've heard from companies months later about the position to which I applied or another one that's even better.</div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Besides, you can eat to your hearts content knowing you can work out every day for the next week to eliminate any guilt. You can kickstart your holiday shopping next week when everyone else is at work, including taking advantage of layaway programs at stores like Toys 'R Us. You can hunt for the best deals and hit each and every store at your leisure.</div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Enjoy yourself this holiday and appreciate all that you have going for you...not the one thing that you don't have.</div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Additional blessing: I was lucky enough to be a featured guest on Outreach Today's upcoming 11/23 episode Bringing Home the Bacon: Job Troubles, Career Setbacks or Unemployed???. For those listeners (and my faithful readers), <b>get a special 15% discount on my eBook, "FUNemployed: Finding the Upside in the Downturn" with coupon code GY75U when you purchase from Smashwords: <a href="http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/57522" rel="nofollow" style="color: #234786; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px; text-decoration: underline;" target="_blank">http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/57522</a></b><var id="yiv1473989926yui-ie-cursor"></var></div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </div><div style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">AND, if you want to listen to <b>my internet radio interview, it's on Wed 11/23 at 1pm ET/10am PT on Voice America. Listen here: </b><span class="yiv1473989926messageBody"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt;">FUNemployed</span></i></b><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt;"> shares important information for dealing with debt, depression, job rejection and other challenges of unemployment, as well as the hilarious triumphs along the way. It’s a witty and inspirational must read for those who’ve been affected in any way by the economic downturn or know someone who has. <span style="color: red;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt;"><br />
</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 13.0pt;">If you have any questions or want some more specific information, please leave a comment. Thanks!</span></div><!--EndFragment-->Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-47686260823265061082011-11-07T04:59:00.000-08:002011-11-07T04:59:07.863-08:00FUNemployed Holiday Tips<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">As we near the holidays, it's important to be able to enjoy yourself on a limited budget. Here are some tips:</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 14px;">Try to enjoy yourself and stay positive. Being around friends and family can be the best gift of all. Better yet...it's free!</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-24520530827627234662011-10-30T20:52:00.000-07:002011-10-30T20:52:48.370-07:00Rebel YellI've never considered myself a rebel. I was the obedient teacher's pet, the one who did everything right. There was an inner rebel inside, wanting to get out but I fought it. Alcohol helped keep me numb.<br />
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It wasn't until my FUNemployment that I started to give the finger to convention. I'd done everything right: studied hard, went to a great college, got a job at the world's biggest ad agency and kept climbing the ladder. The only problem was that I was miserable. Doing everything right didn't feel right.<br />
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When I was laid off, it was expected that I'd jump right back into the job market. And believe me, I tried. The universe had other plans for me.<br />
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In my FUNemployment, I did a lot of fun things. I got healthy. Most of all, I found my inner voice. I decided that I was going to make the most of the opportunity and step out of my box. I look at writing and completing a book as a major accomplishment. Many people told me I was crazy, inquired about when I'd get a "real" job. Well, I've got one again and I couldn't hate it more.<br />
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Once again, I've caved to convention. I regressed after having found my true voice. I quieted my rebel yell and it's dying to get out. It doesn't help that I'm by far the most dynamic personality in a staid, conservative company that have been debating the merits of launching a Facebook page for 18 months. It would drive a lot of people insane. It makes my want to really unleash my inner Che Guevera.<br />
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Hey Che, let my writing do my yelling, all the way to my Amazon bank.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-23519066567196853312011-10-23T22:12:00.000-07:002011-10-23T22:12:50.863-07:00OccupiedYou may have heard your parents wax poetically about protesting and lament that our generation just doesn't get it. Maybe we had nothing to be angry enough about. Until now.<br />
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Our country has the worst economy that I've lived through and I think I could say the same for my parents. Unemployment is holding steady at 9.1% and is estimated to be as high as 16% if you include the 99 weekers who no longer have benefits at their disposal. While Occupy Wall Street isn't specifically protesting unemployment, our banking system failures and bad decisions led us straight into this down economy and current unemployment crisis.<br />
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As I exit the Bank of America building for my lunch break at my new job, I've seen the protesters marching and camping out at City Hall in downtown LA. I know that they look at me like a financial services douchebag, but my heart belongs with them. Instead of expensed steak dinners and Obama soliciting campaign donations, job creation should be the biggest priority.<br />
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I enjoyed my FUNemployment and made the most of the experience. I strongly believe that it was the opportunity that I needed to rediscover my love of writing. I share my tips and tools for how to not only survive but thrive in unemployment. While I plot my writing career whenever I have a free moment between my 6 hours of daily meetings, I know there are lots out there that are dying to get back to work. Their minds are occupied daily with thoughts of that next job. Let's hope they get their chance sooner rather than later.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-32648109980954583702011-10-07T20:18:00.000-07:002011-10-07T20:18:54.918-07:00Beware Saying "Extra" Really FastWhile attending a loud gathering for volunteers of an organization that facilitates arts and crafts programs in local children's hospitals, I was regaling my FUNemployment tales. One item that I listed drew great interest.<br />
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Me: I learned to surf, wrote a book, took up photography and, oh yeah! I was an extra in a movie.<br />
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Him: You were in an x-rated movie?<br />
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Me: Yeah, I was an extra in a movie.<br />
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Him: Seriously?<br />
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Me: Yeah. I mean only the back of my head was on camera and it was tedious but I got an imdb profile out of it.<br />
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Him: Wow, I've never met anyone in porn.<br />
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Me: WHAT?! Who said anything about porn?<br />
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Him: You said you were in an x-rated movie.<br />
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Me: I was an EXTRA in a movie. As in I was in the background. Everyone was clothed. Nothing illicit, except for the acting. This event is for kids!?!<br />
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Him: I know. I've gotta get my mind out of the gutter.<br />
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Me: Yup.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0Los Angeles, CA, USA34.0522342 -118.243684933.7354072 -118.50012840000001 34.369061200000004 -117.9872414tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1817409789113827150.post-61796883092980676182011-10-01T13:49:00.000-07:002011-10-01T13:53:34.507-07:00The Hallmark of Critical MassI've been blogging about FUNemployment since January 2010 and published my eBook in May 2011. I'm sorry to say that people are still living in unemployment and more are joining the ranks every month. Unemployment is not a blip on the screen.<br />
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What's really makes me certain? Hallmark has created a line of cards for the unemployed. You know that when a major company not known for its agility creates a new category, it's because it's a great idea (patting myself on the back) but it's also necessary.<br />
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So, if you've been laid off, check your mail. You may just get the "Things I don't know" card whose interior says, "Bad things happen to good people." Indeed.<br />
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You can check out the Hallmark selection here:<br />
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